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Conversation is the oil of a relationship...but unfortunately, it is all I am able to do at the moment with the computer as my intermediary.

I do not want any confusion about my status. sadly friends only at this point. Some decisions you make, possibly regret, but must honor them. Should anything change I will update my status. Having said that, I miss the TS community. I miss talking and discussing (flirtatious or not) with transgendered people. I've met enough, dated some and thus am not "curious" but interested.

So who am I besides a a few 2x1 inch photographs and a couple of clicked boxes. (in the end who knows how well we know ourselves...38 and still finding things out about myself which isn't to say i am not comfortable with who I am but life presents us with situations we did not expect and can be challenging.)

That dragnet guy said "just the facts ma'am"...and so do my attending doctors. i'm an orthopaedic surgical resident but used to work for auction houses/galleries, so my identity is a bit of a mixture between the scientific and the artistic. both have their pleasantries and festering issues. In part being on here is allowing me to reinflate that right brain as my training now is mostly about facts, procedures, percentages (and hugs every now and then in the clinical setting!)

but open to most everything in conversation....

again, sorry about only being friends....but then again i'm sure many TS are used to situations that are not ideal.

Weegschaal

Athletisch

Langer Dan 6' 4 (1.93 m)

Bruin

Blank

Serieuze Relatie

Nee

Niet Zeker

Glimlach

Geheime piercings

Bruin

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Recht

Physician

Met Huisgeno(o)ten

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Intelligent

Flirterig, Vriendelijk

Nachtclubs / Bars, Fitness, Internet, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Muziek, Fotografie, Lezen, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Sport, Theater, Reizen, Tv

Met Vrienden zijn, Naar een museum gaan, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen

Vriendelijk

to be the best possible doctor I can be...and not be a bastard.

Slim, Vriendelijk, Gek, Ranzig

Nieuws, Tekenfilms, Documentaires, Films, Sport

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Documentair, Animatie, Thriller

Rock, Electonische Muziek , Klassiek, Ambient

Nieuws, Klassiek , Fictie, Geschiedenis, Mysterie, Filosofie, Politiek, Religieus, Natuurwetenschap, Sport

Urban exploration--walking in the city--movie, bars, club (but i want to talk to you so...clubs are probably for later.)

Empathie, Flirterig, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Intelligentie, Eigenaardigheden, Gevoeligheid, Spontaniteit, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

In the end, we can have our lists of what we want and look for, but i've found it's more of a reaction, a gut sense. And sometimes, people click on different levels: sex might be amazing, but can't really talk over coffee. Other times it's the reverse. Let me just say that someone who can carry on a conversation is usually great in bed as well. Uhh..well, not always but i think we'd be more relaxed. And of course sex isn't the be all end all...just one part of the puzzle, perhaps a bit larger than some other parts, but a part all the same.

I'd also like to chat a bit too...medical people are often very homogenous. not all, but many.

Vriend