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I am in an open relationship and we are in search of others to bring into our life. We are both pansexual, and consequently are open to fulfilling this vacancy regardless of gender. I myself enjoy binding (rope/leather) a sub, fire play, biting, canes/floggers, hair pulling, and seeing how far I can taunt and bait them for more. I have been in the lifestyle for over twelve years, and in that time my fascination has never ceased with the variation of people and the means that arouse them.

On a more casual note, we love to entertain and socialize, so are both always looking to make new friends for friends’ sake. We are either entertaining in our home or we can be found at the Lair De Sade almost weekly, where I am also an Insight Relationship Manager, so if you have a topic you’d like to present or request, let me know.

I believe in having a well balanced life, beyond just the kink. I enjoy the wilderness, science fiction and comedy, patronizing the arts and entertainment, and have a pleasant hobby of oil painting (See some of my work on my FetLife profile). I am the proud puppy parent of Leo, an excitable and handsome chocolate Labrador. I would like to get back into hiking, and wish gain my pilots license. During the day I am an accomplished engineer, racking my brain to make original solutions reality.

My personality could best be described as quirky, redeemably down-to-earth, ambitious, liberal, reflective, pragmatic, and a strong sense of civic responsibility.

Lady Solaris is goofy yet intelligent, having her degree in business management, extraordinarily insightful, and has her own artistic outlets: singing (jazz and Broadway), photography, makeup artistry.

Virgo

Average

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Married

No

Not Sure

Butt

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Secret Piercings

Blonde

Dog

No

College Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Senior Electrical Engineer

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Quiet One

Reserved, Shy, Friendly

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Gardening, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Going To A Museum

Just something where we could get to know eachother better - low pressure, or commitment.

sky diving, again too many to list

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, A Flirt

Agnostic

Never

Liberal

To enjoy life, to have value to the world... as well as a few personal goals (pilots license, work on my art, building relationships...).

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure

Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy

Instructional, Technical

Sailing, hiking, playing with labrador, socializing, video games, pretty flexible.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Somebody that we (Solaris and I) have chemistry with, that can contribute to our relationship as a person; a good and attractive (that definition goes beyond looks) person.

Friend, Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Just Wanna Fuck, Other